The perfect date from terrywebbs's blog

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Observe the 4 p.m. Deadline - As the big date approaches, women worry that they'll be stood up. This is why there's a 4 p.m. deadline. If you call at 4:20 to confirm the 8 p.m. date, I'll have already made other plans, just to protect myself from the letdown. Call between noon and 4, or risk being set adrift like a hard-luck astronaut.


Choose the Location Well - If we live in a city, the first date should be closer to my place than yours—so you can walk me home. You should reach the meeting place on time or a little early. If you're driving to my place, pick me up 5 minutes late. There may be a stray hair that needs taming. And observe proper car etiquette. Always open the door for me, whether or not your car has power locks. Pressing a button does not a gentleman make.


Money Matters - Spending too much on a date makes me think you're trying to buy my affection. Or worse. I'd rather see evidence of your personal interest than your interest-bearing accounts.


Pay Attention - Girls spend a lot of time getting glam. They also spend a lot of time wondering if guys notice. Respond to my efforts. But Chill with the Compliments, give me a couple of sincere snaps—but make sure they're thoughtful.


Introduce Me - If you stop and talk to absolutely anyone, introduce me within 30 seconds without using the words "my friend." Personal details are required. By date six, I should have met all your important friends.


Don't Go All Donald on Me - Unless a woman is a hopeless climber, you won't impress her with what you own (that is, if you own anything). Instead, let me discover what's valuable about you, not what you've bought.


Notice What I Drink - Ask me if I'd like a refill when I leave an empty glass behind and head for the ladies' room. This makes you attentive and thoughtful.


Walk Me to My Door - It's a scary world, and I want you to protect me. If you're welcome inside my apartment, I will invite you. Do not ask to use the bathroom.


Kiss Me - If the date has gone well, lips must come into play. Even if it's just a peck. It gives me more peace of mind than you can imagine. Don't be discouraged if I hesitate to kiss you in return. I might be shy or nervous because I really like you.


Recognise the Kiss-Off - Game over if I don't kiss you on a second date. Take the hint.


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